M: Kiki, we will try to only use happy words. K: Why? M: Because if you use angry words all the times, nobody will want to play with you anymore. K: Why? M: People don't like angry words or angry girls. K: I like them. M: That's silly. Angry words are bad. K: No mommy. You used angry words when I am bad and I still like you.
Note: Angry words include but are not limited to: "No!" "Get away from me!" " I don't like you!" "Do it now!" "MINE!" "No baby!" "Stop that!"
Unfortunately, a few items on the list are used by the girl as well as the mommy. Yes, I am also working on not using angry words.